Actually, I understand perfectly fine as to what motherhood really entails and therefore am not doing it. I've written out some nifty, quick reasons for the general suckage behind motherhood.
- Kids are very annoying due to constantly wanting attention. I would probably bash it over the head with a keyboard... no you don't want me breeding.
- Women usually get stuck doing all the childrearing. I know I would bitterly resent this...
- Your body is destroyed after pregnancy and childbirth. Ever heard of vaginal rectal fistula or fourth laceration? Unpleasant stuff that leaves your vagina thus sex life in ruins. Or stretch marks from head to toe and permanent weight gain (celebrity moms delude women with their plastic surgery).
- Breastfeeding. Why would an adult woman want to be chained to baby all time without the possibility of the father taking over? Maybe thats what moother wants. It also turns women into martyrs.
- The mom brigade is always giving slack to other mothers who don't do the same things they do. Breastfeeding, natural birth, stay at home... are just some of the crap mothers feel pressured into regardless of whether or not their beneficial.
- And if you don't obey the brigade at all times they attempt to make you feel guilty. Why would anyone want to even feel guilt for thinking about taking a damn shower alone?
- Mothers live sad, pathetic lives that only revolve around their brat. Eventually the husband grows resentful and leaves her unshowered, jobless, ravaged body self for someone else or a nice apartment that doesn't smell like dirty diapers.
- Similar to the one above, once the kids came along everything else becomes secondary turning once spritely women into selfish, immature cows who think world revolves around them and kids.
- You have no time to yourself, just endless days of dirty diaper-changing, feeding, chasing, and dealing with demands of brat.
- Stay-at-home mothers are stuck at home with brats while husband is out traveling and doing interesting things. I'd resent the hell out of that. Honestly, with such a bad economy you could end up stuck at home unintentionally as women's careers are viewed as more expendable then men's careers.
Why Women Breed
Well, usually its due to the "lifescript," which basically means living out your life the way you think its suppose to be (order of college, marriage, and then breeding is the typical example). But I've made some interesting observations to inside the the reason women breed. Sorry, guys I'm not so sure about you. Men breeding has always baffled me though as they get so much less rights and control of their kids then the mother.
- Lifescript. Go to college (or else skip this step entirely and go straight for a wallet), get married (most girls have it planned out from day one), and get knocked up (they say planning on three, but I've seen plenty pushing carts with four or more in it).
- Control. Kids are always the assured source of control for women, which is why they work so hard to gear all the dynamics in the family towards them by breastfeeding, homeschooling, and obsessing over normal bodily functions, which keeps the father blocked out from ever being involved in the kid's life
- Money. This may not seem as obvious, but having kids can at least guarantee a welfare check. Money is also a factor by way of child support (especially if he's got anything at all in assets) and possible familial support because grandmother has no spine to stand up to her grown daughter begging for money to spend on a manicure (cause she can't afford it herself due to child expenses).
- Land a man. Some women are actually naive enough to believe they can keep guy around if they lie to him about being on birth control (beware men). As if a man would want to stay up at night listening to a screaming baby when he knows he can run for the door!
- Maybe she's a parent not breeder. Some women really do want kids. Though I would sure as hell never want them.